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[17 Apr 2012|02:36pm] |
Things are so much better right now and i'm so happy. It wasn't any fun when there were problems in our little family so when things got worked out my life became a lot easier to deal with. Yeah there's still some times when things aren't perfect but that's natural all families fight but it's bad when it's a constant thing. Pat and I may have fought for a while but there was never a time when I seriously considered replacing him as my best man in the wedding next week. I would have never done that because he's not just my best friend he's my brother. Not just because he's married to my sister either.
Speaking of the wedding things are coming together pretty quickly though there are still a few things that need to be taken care of but hopefully it will all be taken care of before the wedding day. I've got almost all of my side of the wedding party. Pat's my best man and i asked Ethan and Deuce to be groomsmen to when they agreed. I still need one more person so hey Charlie would you be willing to be my last groomsmen? I'd be willing to pay for anything you need for the wedding just let me know if there's anything i need to do if you're willing.
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[19 Mar 2012|05:43pm] |
Everything is just one big mess now and it's getting really frustrating. I'm proud of Emily for going into rehab and getting help she saw that it was needed and i'm proud that she took it upon herself to take that step and get the help that she needed. It really worried me when i found the drugs in the house and while i immediately flushed them down the toilet i had no way of knowing how much she had already done. It worried me because we're in the process of trying to have a baby and the drugs would be really bad for the baby.
Everything is such a huge mess with Pat and it seems that every time i open my mouth i just make things even worse. It makes me want to just not speak to him at all but i know that's not a good idea either with the wedding coming up next month. At this point i dont' know if i want him to be my best man even but maybe that will change sometime between now and then. Maybe the family counciling that the rehab center wants us to do will help things along but i'm really not holding my breath.
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[04 Mar 2012|10:09am] |
This whole situation is getting on my last nerve and is so fucked up. It's like nobody wants to listen to anyone's point of view except for their own and I wish that my family would just pull their heads out of their asses and try and figure this shit out. It seems like every time I turn around i'm in the middle of a fight between my wife and my best friend or my sister and it's starting to get frustrating.
I wish that Pat and Zoe would actually listen to Emily for a change and actually believ when she apologizes. Maybe i'm getting wrong info or maybe it's just me getting one side of things but their attitude is really making it hard for me to want to even stop and listen to their side of anything and is t so bad that i want to automatically take the side of my wife without hearing from them? She is my wife afterall and she should really come first no matter what.
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[17 Dec 2011|07:34pm] |
I'm absolutely horrible I have yet to actually purchase my fiance's Christmas present. I guess you could say that the Hawaii trip we're taking next week could go for part of it but I still want to buy something to put under the tree for her. One problem with that though...i'm at a loss for what to get her but i'm sure i'll come up with something between now and then. Other than that one gift though i'm pretty much done with my christmas shopping in large part because well I did it online LMAO.
She and I are planning an actual wedding for next April but with the chances that my mom may not make it til then she and I are planning to have a small courthouse wedding between Christmas and NYE just us, Pat, Zoe and our moms. We'll still have the larger wedding in April but it's really important to me that my mom be at my wedding and this was the best way that we were able to pull it off and guarentee that she would be there.
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[15 Oct 2011|08:26pm] |
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Someone save me from drinking myself into a stupor once again so my sister doesn't kill me.
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[08 Oct 2011|11:28pm] |
You've reached Zander, leave a message.
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[08 Oct 2011|03:37pm] |
ABOUT YOU
Your Name: Erica
Your Age: 30
Your AIM screenname: Flipforem
Your Email: templehillfan@netzero.com
Location (Time Zone): Eastern
ABOUT YOUR CHARACTER
Character Name: Alexander "Zander" Winchester
Nicknames: Zander, Zan
Age: 27
Birthday: October 31,1984
Birthplace: Atlanta, Georgia
Parents: David Winchester (deceased), Margarite Garcia-Winchester
Siblings: Zoe
Occupation: Actor
PB: Jensen Ackles
Height: 6'0
Weight: 175
Eye Color: Green
Hair Color: Brown
Tattoo(s): none
Piercing(s): none
Sexuality: Straight
Relationship Status: Single
Past Relationships: Taylor Dunne
Personal History:
Born Alexander David Winchester on October 31, 1983 he is the oldest of two kids in his family. Only his mom is allowed to call him Alexander everyone else will get a earful if they call him anything other than Zander and his closest friends call him Zan.
Born into a life of money. With his mom being a producer and his dad being a behind the scenes person his family was very well off when he was growing up. He never let that go to his head though and he actually became best friends with the son of his family's maid.
Sill has feelings for his first love. When he was in high school he fell in love with Taylor Dunne the little sister of his best friend. They were very serious and it broke his heart when she cheated on him. He's never really gotten over that heart break and isn't sure that he ever will.
Child Actor. He got into modeling and acting from a young age back home in Atlanta. He'd been modeling in clothing ads for a few years before he landed his big break in a small indie film. He continued to act in small films a few actually making it to theaters until moving to LA. Once there he had trouble breaking into the industry before he landed the role in Perfection finally breaking out of his "child actor" days.
When he was cast in Perfection Zander made the move to Portage permanently and bought a house in town. He knew he didn't need such a big house for just him but what could he say he wanted a place of his own and could actually afford one once he made the move.
Still not over the death of his father. He was back home in Atlanta for his father's birthday two years ago when he passed away in a car crash. Zander took it really hard and it didn't help that he had to be the one to call his sister and break the news to her.
Personality:
Zander can be a bit crazy at times but when you really get past that outer shell you'll find that he has the biggest heart of any guy you will ever meet.
After getting his heart broken by his high school sweetheart his tends to shut himself off when it comes to ever falling in love again. He's only really ever dated one or two other people and noone seriously since then.
He has gotten a reputation for being a partier because of the fact he tends to go out and drink alot. He has his personal reasons for it but he tends to keep them to himself and tries to keep his exploits out of the media. He even goes as far to guard his real self at all times except when he's with his best friend.
Devoted to his family. For Zander the loss of his father meant a closer relationship with his mother, but a distance from his sister. Despite this he would do anything for her though he does find it a little weird that she recently got engaged to his best friend and was actually left speechless when Zoe first told him.
Takes his job seriously. Zander loves his job but takes his craft seriously. He's always prepared and on time even if he's occasionally a little hung over. He would never let his partying get in the way of doing the best job he can while on the set and never has to be reprimanded for doing anything unprofessional.
RULE CHECK: So I'll shake some hands
Chase that calling star
I'm gonna drive so fast
I can only drive so far
Gonna lay my bricks
And park my car
Gonna sow my seeds somewhere
But home is where you are
SAMPLE POST: templehillfan
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